You are not bad.
You are not broken.
You're neurodivergent.
And that's okay.
Many of us neurodivergent folks grow up hearing about all the ways we are deficient, all the ways we aren't "normal" or good enough, and that creates profound internalized shame.
We must heal this shame in order to do just about everything that matters in life, from reaching our goals to simply feeling fulfilled.
That's exactly what Made To Be Me is all about.
Made To Be Me:
Embracing Your Neurodivergent Brain
Whether you're professionally diagnosed, self-diagnosed, or just suspect that you might be neurodivergent, you're welcome here.
What is internalized shame?
It's the learned mindset of dismissing, invalidating, and, honestly, disliking yourself.
It's not just feeling bad about yourself sometimes, it is a fundamental core belief that who you are is simply...wrong.
Examples of internalized shame:
- Getting that lump-in-your-throat feeling, like you might cry, and then getting the urge to pinch or otherwise harm yourself to keep the tears from falling (and also maybe to punish yourself for even WANTING to cry in the first place).
- Saying something you thought was totally normal, only to be met with blank stares and quickly realizing you f*cked up, yet again.
- Pushing people away because you know something about you is so fundamentally wrong, but they don't know it yet, and if you keep them at bay, maybe they won't leave.
I'll be honest:
Made To Be Me won't totally get rid of your self-loathing.
But it'll help you start addressing it.
Gently. Lovingly. It will be a taste of all the goodness you deserve, but are afraid to want.
The results don't lie.
I used to feel like such an awful person, I briefly thought I might be possessed by the devil himself.
And now? Well, I know I'm no saint, but to be honest, I kinda like this person I am. I'm funny and intense and loving and I'm not always certain of it, but I'm pretty sure I'm good enough.
Life after Made To Be Me can look like:
- Making a mistake and feeling bad about it without, like, hating yourself.
- Recognizing that your neurodivergence is a true disability, and that it's okay to be disabled and all that entails.
- Knowing, deep in your bones, that you were not born broken. This feeling of brokenness is learned, and it can be unlearned.
So...what is Made To Be Me exactly?
It's a bundle of resources to help you cope with your internalized shame.
You get:
- "Shameless" masterclass
- Made To Be Me workbook (with time stamps that align with "Shameless")
- "Feeling Misunderstood" audio meditation
- "Accepting Pain" audio meditation
- "Accepting Difficulty" audio meditation
- "Accepting Strengths" audio meditation
- "Embracing Neutrality" audio meditation
Hi, I'm Megan, your neurodivergent life coach.
My name is Megan and I'm a neurodivergent life coach. I'm certified from Transformation Academy, but honestly, a lot of my coaching comes from my lived experience as an autistic ADHDer.
I used to struggle massively with internalized shame. Now I only struggle with it somewhat. If you live with internalized shame, you know what a huge difference that really is.
I want to pass on this knowledge to every neurodivergent person in the world, because we don’t deserve to hate our brains. We don’t deserve to struggle endlessly to like ourselves just because the world wasn't built for us.
We deserve more. Let’s go get it together.
You Get All This:
Shameless Masterclass ($200 value)
Made To Be Me Workbook ($17 value)
5 Audio Meditations ($190 value)
Total Value = $407
Your Price Today = $65
You can scroll through neurodivergent TikTok for hours, commenting ☠️ emojis on every other video, but until you start taking action...
...you'll never be able to look in the mirror and say
"I love you," without either laughing or crying
(or both).
You're ready to maybe kinda like yourself, just a little bit.
You're ready to embrace your brain, as it is.
You're ready for Made to Be Me.
I'll see you soon.